Do the things you love in the best way possible
In the past years I’ve often heard people saying that we are lucky and how they hope to find the same. My usual advise is to get active in some way. I strongly believe in ‘do the things you love in the best way possible and magic can happen’. This mentality has been life changing for me on multiple occasions. You will only get noticed if you are visible. The more visible you are the more likely it is that it will lead to something. This could be anything from friendships, business opportunities or in this case to finding true love and our first fetish date was the foundation.
As the follower count on my socials grew steadily this also meant that there would be more interactions. Either trough comments on your images or private messages directly. Sometimes you get new followers that like a bunch of images and there was one that turned out to become the start of a new adventure. Usually I check a profile when someone likes a bunch of images. So when I saw a flood of likes from an account called Fetish_Erotica my curiosity was triggered.
How do you date someone from abroad?
Looking at her account I saw a bunch of selfies in full rubber, masks, restraints etc. Somewhat mysterious but it definitely sparked my interest. Especially for that ‘just the quiet girl from next door’ in her profile. So I took a screenshot of my notifications and sent it privately saying “thanks for all the ❤️”. That’s where our conversation started and it hasn’t stopped since.
In the following weeks we texted endlessly and the idea to meet IRL quickly came up. But how do you date someone from abroad? Especially when you realise it’s your first fetish date. Do a one day return for a short meetup? Or do you take the deep plunge and see what happens. We decided to go for the latter option as we had nothing to lose. Worst case scenario would mean spending time alone in a hotel before flying back home.
Full bondage shoot
That first week turned out to be an amazing rollercoaster ride. After arriving in the evening at Schiphol we spent our first evening together and it already felt normal. The next day we did our first photoshoot in full latex. Something we would repeat for the following days. We barely left the apartment during our first week together. It was an amazing way to get to know each other complete with our mutual weird sense of humour.
The trust was right there from the beginning and we did some pretty intense restrained shoots. More photos of this week can be found here. Image visiting a stranger, being restrained in a helpless position with a gag and blindfold in place. In the end our first fetish date lasted nearly a week and it set the foundation for our relationship. Because of the distance and busy work schedule we didn’t see each other as much as we wanted to but we always made the most of it and more importantly we made it work.
